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Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Alzheimer's, the thief!

When did it happen? Was this the reason, a few years back, you announced to me with a sly grin, “I’m not cooking anymore!” I thought you were kidding, but you weren’t. You went on to say that you have cooked all your life and you figure it’s about time you quit. I didn’t question it; however I was sad I wouldn’t be eating your cooking anymore, and figured it was a passing stage, but in retrospect I did notice you were requesting fast foods more and more. We just assumed this as a passing phase of life.

Then, we noticed you didn’t change clothes quite so much, but you always did wear the same things over and over, so again, you fooled us. I’m sure you knew something was wrong. If we deny negatives, they will go away! It would turn around - - something would happen and you would realize it was just a fluke. When, did it happen that you realized something was dreadfully wrong with your memory? Did you have an inkling it was possibly the same disease that plagued your brother Jack? Was it the same thing dad’s sweet sister, Opha, and their grandmother had? I wish you had told us you suspected you had the same disease so we could have prepared. Prepare! Is there ever a way you can prepare for an eraser in the brain?

Kathy and I thought perhaps your loss of memory was stress related when we finally admitted something was amiss. We asked everyone to move out of your house to make a calmer home for you. Your memory kept erasing! Now, when we came to visit you were wearing layers of clothes. You would shiver and say you were cold, even on hot days. You sat and watched ballgame after ballgame with dad (a first), and something women who hate sports would never do when in their right mind! You were always hungry, eating constantly, but never really gaining weight. I wish we had known, but what could we have done? Alzheimer’s is the culprit from hell!

I have prayed for your healing, looked up every research topic I can find on the Internet; tried to think of ways to mend your erased memory and bring it back up like a Smart Board - - replug, reload, activate, blast off, but nothing is working; although one day recently Kathy and I took you to the Sonic in Gunter and fed you ice cream and a real coke and you came more alive that we had seen you in months. We thought perhaps we had found the cure - - Caffeine! Wouldn’t that be such a simple cure? I wish? We love you and who you are, who you were, memory or no memory, it just pains us in the heart and our own brains to see you this way. Our once strong mom who cared for EVERYONE and now she, herself, needs to be cared for. I only wish we could turn back the hands of time!

Monday, March 21, 2011

A Tribute to Dad







Dad, I remember no matter what happened over the years you always said, "I love my beautiful bride". At the end of your life you and mom had your final hours together, though it was not at home and that I regret, but you were together.

I worked so hard to get you and mom in the same nursing home where you could Rehab and be cared for, and she could be there with you day and night. Dad, you worked hard that first day to get your land legs back. You lost the strength in your legs during your short stay at the hospital when you were diagnosed with pneumonia. I stopped by Homestead to visit with you. You were so tired! "I worked hard today so I can get back home.", you stated. I didn't say anything and you said, "Mom's worse isn't she, but if I can't go home I want to die."

We knew you were sick but you always rebounded. We were hoping for that same scenario again. This time that miracle was not to happen. Your desire was to live to care for mom--"my beautiful bride" of nearly 68 years. I started working on getting her to Homestead so you two could be together.

Mom spent 2 nights in the clinical decision unit and 3 nights at Wysongs. The last night she was at Wysongs, the nurse at Homestead came into your room and said you had to go to the hospital because you were in critical condition. Mom was to come the next day. You said, "No hospital, and no dialysis." I backed you up, knowing mom was coming. The nurse went to her station to record this information and see if you were going to be allowed to remain at Homestead rather than have an ambulance take you back to the hospital. I went down to the nursing station and asked her what was going on. She told you were in critical condition, but "bottom line" it was your decision to make. You stayed waiting for mom to get there.

Wes and Randi were there to receive mom at Homestead. Chick and I had driven Holly to a facility where she would live for one year to get her own life back. Holly was such a help with mom and dad while she was here. I hated to see my daughter leave us at that time, but knew she needed this "breath of a new life" for herself. It would be a selfish act on my part to keep her here though she offered to stay. Kathy had to work that day.

Dad,even though you were so sick when mom arrived at Homestead, you raised up on your elbow saying, "There is my beautiful bride." Randi captured the kiss on her camera- -yours and mom's last picture together in life. This was March 1, 2011

Dad never did get better, on March 6, 2011 he left his family. By accident we were all there, never dreaming it was to be his last day. He seemed to be in such deep pain and unable to stay awake and visit with any of us. The past two days he had mostly slept, would not eat, would not drink, and grimaced with pain and groaned. Mom sat by his bed all day rubbing his arm. March 6, 2011 she went outside of the home, the staff called it an elopement. It may have been too much for her to handle to watch dad so sick. Kathy and I arrived by 3:30 p.m.

Kathy forgot to give Colton his key to the apartment; she texted him to come by Homestead to get it. I texted Laura to come since I couldn't get hold of Wes;and texted Melissa to let her know dad was in really bad shape. Laura arrived; Wes and Harry arrived, Melissa and Francesca arrived. We were there when dad's soul lifted from his earthly body and floated around us and then on to heaven. Mom had told him the day before just as clear as she ever talked, "I hate to see you go!", but she knew he was in pain and indicated (in her way) he could be released from his worldly responsibilities.


Good-bye dad, we love you forever!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Bee Hives

What a unique name for a hair do that clearly resembles a "bee hive" in the swirly way it is teased about 10 inches from the base of the skull. It was the rage in the early 60's. According to my research it was inspired by a hat owned by Margaret Vinci Heldt. She was the creator of the beehive hair style and was being honored on January 7, 2011 on the 50th birthday of the hair style. This hairstyle lasted a decade and we all suffered from the style.

I remember my bee hive! I was one of the girls who made a weekly appointment to get that lovely hairstyle. I went for my weekly style at one of the local beauty salons. Pam Hamilton and her sister, Vicki, plus a few other hair stylists have put up many a bee hive for me. I have the fondest memories of the bee hive up-do. Here are a few I'll share with you.

When the bee hive first came into vogue I immediately had mine done. I loved it, it was lacquered and hard as a rock, but I was so in! It stayed up until we chiseled it down each week. I learned to do what everyone else did, scratch your scalp with a pencil being careful not to mess the hive up. How could it move? You could be in a Hurricane and your clothes blow off, but yet, the beehive would still stand!

I had a beehive on my wedding day. The veil pretty much covered it in the wedding pictures. The hair never moved, not one strand, throughout the honeymoon and possible 48, nearly 49 years later if I hadn't washed my hair, it would still be standing. I did learn you had to wrap the style in toilet paper before going to bed so I bought colored paper the color of my negligee's so it would look more like a turban and pinned a brooch type pin in the front with some of the hair sticking out.

One night I had wrapped about a roll of toilet paper around my hair when the door bell rang. I peeked out and it was our friends from Hillsboro. Quickly I unwrapped my hair (about 15 minutes) and went to the door to greet them. They had their 4 children and their dog with them. Later we ran out of toilet paper and I had to give up my pink paper for the other end of the anatomy for our guests. Always the hostess!

I recall another time when I left my "real" Christmas tree up until February. I came home and decided it was time to take it down. Oh my gosh - can we say PORCUPINE????? I had bleeding fingers from removing the ornaments and when I pulled the fire hazard, dried out tree through the narrow living room door, barbs flew every where. For days after that I was picking out pine needles from my beehive.

My sister in law called me and told me about a job I would enjoy. It was my chance to get on where she worked and where some of my friends worked. I must look my best so I went to the Beauty shop for a bee hive redo and the beautician put this blue stuff called Roux Rinse on my hair to tone down the blond. When they finished with me, I looked in the mirror and my hair was the color of lavender. I went through so much getting this style; we were poor and I was shy-- too shy to speak up. I just went home with Lavender hair hoping it would tone down by morning.
The day came for my job interview at State Farm Insurance. I thought I looked fantastic, but did notice the lady who interviewed me kept looking at my hair. A couple of weeks later I received word that the position I applied for wasn't a glamorous job - - file clerk. I was embarrassed years later when I think upon it, but also it makes me laugh to know what a young wet behind the ears girl I was then, 19 years old with no clue how to dress for an interview!

Then came the time I was helping move a piano from my mom's house and had a new white fur jacket on and, you guessed it-- my bee hive hairstyle. The truck we were transporting the piano on got stuck in the mud. I tried to help push the truck out of the rut, and the tires spun around throwing mud up on my fur jacket and yes, my bee hive! Can we say dripping?

When our older daughter Angie was about 3 years old we carved her a pumpkin for Halloween, and yes, I was still sporting a bee hive hair style in 1968 (still popular) and I arrived home wearing my new blue trench coat when I spotted the rotten pumpkin still sitting on the air conditioner in our front room window. It looked sad, sort of leaning to the left a lot. Maybe because we were already in the middle of November. I scooted the trash barrel around to the front of the house while complaining to myself. I placed the can right below the porch and the oozy jack-o-lantern was dropped from about 3 feet to the trash. Plop! It exploded and blew up all down the front of my new blue trench coat. Strings of rotten pumpkin and seeds were dripping from my bee hive!

Later, the shag hairstyle came into vogue; I was free at last--no more bee hive for me! Last night while watching the news the latest and greatest bee hive is coming back! I hope Charmin still makes colored toilet paper!

Friday, December 10, 2010

A Christmas Surprise-2009

Two sisters felt defeated, beaten down; couldn’t pull up the Christmas Spirit no matter how hard they tried. It was a clear, beautiful day filled with sunshine, but a cloud hung over the sisters hearts as they desperately tried to revive the spirit of Christmas from long ago before their family fell apart.

The evening of the day was drawing near, when they decided to pull over at a little community lake and just lay back in the van to feel the days last rays of sunlight on their faces hoping for some solace on their souls. Joggers’ braved the cold of that December day, running with the ear buds of their IPOD’s in their ears, only seeing what was in front of them to accomplish their weary, daily tasks. No one seemed to notice the two sisters sitting in the van wishing for a miracle to lift them out of their funk.

The golden and red leaves of yesterday’s trees, which only a month ago surrounded the lake were now gone, the day seemed starkly wintry and cold. The sisters sat in silence and rested not speaking; suddenly out of the corner of their eyes they both caught some motion which started at the West end of the lake. They stared in that direction - watching, waiting, and wondering. What was it?


It was birds! Nothing unusual at the lake, however these birds were paddling up the lake, closer, and closer to the van when suddenly they started spreading their wings. These were not the typical ducks in the lake, these were majestic geese,rising, lifting,and honking as they passed by the two sisters in the van. The geese dappled the sparkling water with the tips of their wings, dipping from side to side in unison, as they glided directly in front of the vehicle, rising in a perfectly formed V. The sisters felt such wonder as they watched the geese until they were out of sight.

Sadness fell like a stone from their shoulders. Through nature God had given the message to two sisters to rise up from this gloom and lift off. An unexpected gift had been given to them as joy welled up in their hearts.

Monday, October 11, 2010

When someone loved becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure

Of all the memories I have of my sweet friend, Janell, this one stands out in my mind. First of all, I have to move backwards in order to go forward. This was way back when my girls, Holly and Angie, were still living at home.

My older daughter, Angie, has always had a passion for animals. Our daughters both were animal lovers and over the years they would pick up strays and bring them home. Angie had achieved what every teen wants: a driver's license. She was 16 and her sister was 8 years old. Angie was her sister's babysitter and would keep my car most days, during the lazy summer of 1982, so they could go to Juanita's Maxfield's swimming pool and other places. They picked me up at 5 p.m. every day after I finished with my work day.

I was looking out the window, waiting to be picked up when I saw not one head, not two, but three heads in the car. Of course when someone is sitting in the car all you can see is their head. The 3rd head was a very red hairy looking character. Ummmm! As I walked to the car I saw Angie slide over to the passenger seat while I opened the door and took the wheel. The very hairy redhead I had viewed from the window had a very hairy body connected to it. The hairy head had a pink tongue that was dripping saliva at an amazing rate. The mutt, I was looking at with disdain, had crusty eyes, and was very skinny. Angie was performing her sales speech at a very rapid rate, and I wasn't buying into it. She and Holly had, on a whim, been to the city pound to find themselves a pet.

I said, "Angie, we are not keeping that mangy, sore eyed, skinny dog! You have to take it back to the pound tomorrow. It could have rabies or some dog disease, and besides you didn't ask our permission." Angie looked sad, "but mom, we went out there to just look and she came right to us as though she knew us. It was meant to be - - besides she is a great dog." I came back at her with a firm, "No, tomorrow she goes back to the pound as soon as you drop me off at work, end of story!"

However, it wasn't the end of the story. I happened to glance back in the rear view mirror as this dog laid her head on my shoulder. I locked eyes with hers. This dog had the most expressive, kind, loving human eyes I had ever seen, and she was smiling at me. Yes, smiling! Before I drove up in our driveway, I said to my girls, "Well, I think this dog looks like her name should be Sally." Sally she became!

A little over a year later Angie married her childhood sweetheart Bill, and left our home, but Sally stayed. We moved to Fairview and our dog loved having all the space to freely roam about, chasing rabbits, squirrels and birds on the acreage. Our driveway was about 2 acres long and she would run up that driveway when she heard our cars coming up the road. She would be running along with her ears flopping behind her and her pink tongue lolling out to the side of her smiling mouth. She would beat the car to the house and proceed to wait for us. She loved us and we loved her. She was part Irish Setter and mutt!

Over time our friend Janell moved in with us. Sally loved Janell as much as she loved us, and Janell loved her. Sally added Janell to the car following, tail wagging, tongue lolling daily ritual. Janell always leaned down to pet and talk to her - - a partnership was born.

One day, Sally failed to meet my car, and I wondered where she was. I found her lying in the garage looking lethargic. She lifted her head and smiled and tried to get up, but couldn't. We worried she might have been hit by a car. We checked her all over. She didn't wince or act like anything was broken or out of place, but it was all she could do to drag herself to the grass next to the garage to relieve herself. She drank water from our cupped hands. My husband carried her to the vet who ran tests and diagnosed Sally with advanced heart worms. He said it was too late to treat her with medications and suggested it was best to have her euthanized or take her home and let her live out her final days.

Every day Janell would stop and place her hands on Sally's frail body and pray for healing. Sally continued to smile at us and wag her tail, but laid there. Janell never passed by her that she didn't stop and lay hands on her and say a simple prayer of healing. One day I told Janell to save her prayers because Sally wasn't going to make it. She continued to pray.

Not long after we brought her home, I was driving up our drive when out of the corner of my eye I saw a red blur. Did I see what I thought I saw? I looked again. It was Sally running down the driveway to meet me; her ears flopping, her tongue lolling and her tail propelling her along. She was her old self. I choked up with tears of joy. Our woman of Faith, Janell, prayed the prayer of faith and Sally understood. Janell believed it could happen. Sally lived in good health for two more years. What a gift!

Recently Janell, who had been having the best time of her life, called me to let me know she was diagnosed with cancer. We didn't have any fear. We both knew she would conquer this - - our Faith and hers would prevail. A short time later, Janell went home and her healing was complete. I believe when Janell walked into God's light she saw a red blur named Sally, with her tail wagging, pink tongue lolling, big dog smile, running to greet Janell on September 28, 2010, as they moved forward to the gates of their heavenly home.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Remembrances by Dad 7/7/10

When I was a young man of 16, my brother came home from boot camp to Hosmer, Indiana. He was 18 years old at the time. He pulled off his uniform and hung it up on a hanger, on a nail in the wall. I admired that uniform, and couldn't wait to try it on. It just fit. As I looked in the mirror I saw a boy transform into a man, handsome and mature; visions of travel, women, money to send home.... I couldn’t get those thoughts out of my head. All I could think about was going to the Air Force; wearing a snazzy uniform like George’s. What did I have to lose? At the time I was a sophomore in high school, on a fast train going no where. Mom was having a difficult time trying to raise the last two children, me and Dot, and this would free her up somewhat. But I'm ahead of my story, let me backtrack a few years.

Henry Price, my dad, had a stroke and was unable to work the farm for 3 years. He died a young man in 1935, and the 36 acre farm work was left up to me, my sister, Dorothy, my brother George and our mom. Our grandfather, George Alstadt, moved in the farm house with us and continued the farming along with our help. In 1938 he got sick and died. We didn’t know what we were going to do, mom did the best she could as a single woman; when the taxes came due on the farm - -a house, a barn and 38 acres of land, we just didn't have it to pay. My older sister Opha and her husband, Ishmael, pulled together the tax money, approximately $200 or less to save the farm and now they had bought the farm- - lock, stock and barrel. Opha, Ishmael, and their baby, Dickie, took possession of the farm in 1939.

My brother George left home. He moved to town to live with my sister Delores and her family. While there he met a neighbor girl, and as passion would have it - soon she was pregnant with his child. Delores and her husband, Clark, told George to go enlist in the service to get out of this responsibility. He evidently didn’t want to marry the girl and this was his way out. He enlisted in the military service, and was gone for 6 years. As for me, I couldn’t get the thoughts of how good I looked in that uniform of George’s after he left. I decided I was going to the service. It was 1941 and I was 16 years old. I begged mom to sign for me to go to the service. She refused. I told her I would forge her name. She gave up and signed for me. It was February 1940, winter was upon us, I immediately packed my few belongings and gathered enough money to catch a bus to Indianapolis, Indiana where I signed up and was sent to San Antonio, Texas for training. I was there for “boot camp” - - 6 months. I trained to become a medic.

My next stop was Long Beach, California and there was where I was, in my smart uniform I might add, when war broke out. I didn't buy into that, but here I was a young man treating soldiers for venereal diseases at the time. On of my clear remembrances were the Japanese famililes in Long Beach who had their businesses shut down while they and their families were rounded up, as though they had anything to do with the war, and sent to internment camps. Yes, here in the U.S.A.

My next assignment was Bakersville, California to sit all day watching the flight line. I was a medic and the pilots were training to fly. If they crashed or bailed, our group was to take care of these young pilots - - that is, if they made it out alive! My brother, George, was in the signal corps stationed in North Africa when the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor, Hawaii. By then I was flown (my first and only flights) to Palm Springs where General Patton trained his troops. I did guard duty while surrounded by the mountains. I remember being so cold in California, while I walked my guard duty time. I couldn’t get warm, but it was beautiful with the mountain backdrop -still hard for this farm boy to believe California was that cold. Then I was flown back to Bakersville. Now that we were at war, I wanted to do something more; Airline mechanics were needed. I put in my paperwork to become an airline mechanic; going to Nevada to wait for my next assignment. It was there I was to meet my future brother-in-law. Red Barnett, a young man who worked in the office. He laughed lots, was fun, and started hanging out with me and my buddies. There were about 6 or 8 of us that clicked and became pals. Red wanted to go with us to train as airline mechanics. We all were sent to Dallas, Texas. Love field!

While there we hung out at Grady’s, a little hole in the wall place to eat, drink and dance. A good place to meet girls and enjoy a cold beer. Grady’s was where Red and I met our future wives, Jimmie and Ruth Green. We were smitten! They worked at the Pickle Factory on Denton Drive and lived with Bonnie (a friend of theirs) and Katy Green, another sister.

I knew I was in love in a short time, and in war times you had to make your move fast. Jimmie’s folks lived in Van Alstyne, Texas then. I asked her to marry me. She went home on the Interurban and her dad hit the ceiling. He wanted no part of this. Grandpa wouldn’t let her come back to Dallas, so I caught the Interurban and your mom picked me up at the station in your Uncle Jack’s car or Uncle Bill’s car, can’t remember whose car now, but Othel was already married and had your cousin Don and they lived in Val Alstyne too, so I’m remembering it may have been their car. Your grandpa Green had left the house because he wasn’t going to meet me or be asked for his daughter’s hand in marriage. He wanted no part of me. Your grandma Green gave her permission for me to marry your mom. Grandma said she did the very same thing against her parent’s wishes so she wanted to bless this marriage. Eventually Grandpa Green liked me, and I was happy about that.

Elmer Dodson from Kentucky went to the Dallas Courthouse with us to get married on May 17, 1943. I went back to my barracks and your mom went back to her apartment. Our next assignment was Sioux City, Iowa. Red went too. When I sent for your mom, Red said, “Tell Jim to bring Ruth with her” when she comes. Ruth and Mom arrived in Sioux City, Iowa and they got an apartment. Red married Ruth in Sioux City, Iowa. You and Jerry (their son) were born in Sioux City, Iowa at the Catholic Hospital. You were born during a blizzard and we had to take an ambulance to the hospital. It was February, in the throes of winter. Back then a woman stayed in the hospital for 2 weeks after having a baby. Your mom’s legs were weak from being in the hospital and I had to carry her up the stairs to our apartment while Ruth carried you.

Red and I were working on airplanes, in training still. I was a crew chief and had people under me. I remember I had a sore foot and couldn’t wear a shoe. I can’t remember what I did, but standing on my feet may have been the reason my foot was sore. I just don’t remember - - too many years have passed. While we were in Sioux City I had to go to Patterson, New Jersey to learn how to change engines out in airplanes while Ruth stayed with you and your mom. When I returned I was told to go to Salina, Kansas. We took a train and rented a room in a house. I stayed 2 weeks, but didn’t know we were only staying two weeks until we got our orders and I had paid a month’s rent. We were working on the new B29’s. It was 1944. We had left Ruth and Red behind, and she was still in the hospital after giving birth to her first born, Jerry. They took possession of our apartment there because it was bigger than the one they lived in. Grandma and Grandpa Green were coming to stay with Ruth after she got home. At this point Red and Ruth no longer were in the same places we were stationed.


My next assignment was San Rafael, California. Mom went back from Kansas to Van Alstyne, Texas on the train with you. When I was settled in for my new assignment, I took the train back to Van Alstyne and rode back 3 weeks later with you and your mom. I went AWOL. I just never reported when we got back to California; however I did go on post to buy supplies and cigarettes. Our landlady reported me and I went to the guard house, lost my rank and was there for 4 months. During that time the guards took me to see you and your mom every day.

I didn’t go overseas because my only brother was over there fighting with General Patton. He was involved in setting up communication on D day. When the war was over we had $300 to start a new life. Although I was offered a job in San Rafel, we moved to McKinney Avenue in Dallas, Texas and I begin working for the meat packing plant. We had lots of ham to eat during that time. I remember one of the people who lived in the house with us (there were 5 or 6 couples living there) was named Buck Duvall. I’m sure he is dead now.

My oldest sister Opha wanted me back in Indiana and wrote me a letter to let me know International Harvester was hiring. We picked up and moved to Oakland City, Indiana and I went to work for International Harvest. We lived in an apartment connected to Dorothy and Earl Rowe's home. They had 3 children, Charlotte, Tommy and Earlene. Earlene was profoundly retarded. They were like family to us. Your mom was very homesick for her sisters, brothers and parents. By the way, the old shotgun we have was from Dorothy’s dad. To get closer to work we moved to Evansville, Indiana and lived in Gatewood Gardens for a year or two (memory escapes me). My mom, Laura Price, moved in with us to keep you until, your sister was on her way, born in 1952. We were living on Faires Avenue when we brought your sister home. We moved to Tennessee Street to a larger house and finally bought a house on Roosevelt Drive in Evansville, Indiana. I worked for International Harvester until they were bought out by Whirlpool and then the trouble began. They let go of all union workers and hired new employees. Now I was out of a job.

(to be continued)

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Saturday, May 29, 2010

Deja Vu

I was on my way home yesterday after work when I noticed a Fairview policeman going the opposite direction. I was breathing a sigh of relief because a year ago I was pulled over for having an expired inspection sticker. Today I had no reason to fear the police pulling me over - - all my sticker's are good, I have my seatbelt on, and I'm within the speed limit. I glanced at my sticker, oh no, am I seeing correctly? It shows 4/10 and now May is nearly over. That can't be right, can it?

I look in my rearview mirror to see if there are any red lights following me. I hurry home knowing when I start worrying about things that could happen I pull the law of attraction to me. So immediately, I begin thinking about the clouds, the sky, the lottery - - anything but the fact my INSPECTION STICKER is a month out of date and I just passed the law! Not again!

Last year about this same time my inspection sticker was 6 months over due and I didn't even realize it was so far gone. I had gone to El Dorado Chevrolet for my van's routine check up and was told my inspection sticker was way overdue. I said, "What? This can't be true because my dad or my husband always lets me know ahead of time." The man from El Dorado Chevrolet says, "We can inspect it for you now." I figured they would charge an arm and a leg and I needed to take it to someone else. I said, "I'll get it done tomorrow." and left. He says I hope you don't get a ticket in the meantime.

On my way home all I can think about is I hope a policeman doesn't see this before tomorrow, and then I think, I've driven this van 6 months without anyone stopping me so why would they notice it now? I pass a Fairview police car heading South while I'm heading North towards home. Oh no, the police car is turning around. I was looking in my rearview mirror thinking, "They must be after someone else because surely my luck can't be that poor." Remember - - law of attraction? No other vehicles were on the road. I pull over and it is a police woman. I told her I just found out a few minutes ago that the sticker was out and was on my way home and then tomorrow I would get my car inspected or today if she would not give me a ticket. I showed her the paperwork I had gotten from El Dorado Chevrolet and how I had just discovered this registration sticker was out of date. She said it was my responsibility and how could I not know it was 6 months past due, that it is not El Dorado Chevrolet's, dad's or my husband's responsibility to tell me when my inspection is due. I begged her not to give me a ticket. She glanced at my blonde hair and let me go. Thank you Lord!

I drove straight to Hwy. 380 to a shop and had my van inspected right that moment, no more waiting. Someone had mercy on me, I felt so relieved and swore to myself not to let that happen again, and not to depend on a man to handle things for me from now on. I vowed then to become an independent woman and make my own way and care for my own things. I would be a WOMAN who handles all the things she used to depend on a man to do. Yes, that is what I'll do.

Okay, my husband took my vehicle in today and now I have a sticker and the oil changed, the water checked, etc. See, I took care of it just like a woman. I am WOMAN, HEAR ME ROAR!